#pan – @bi-lesbian on Tumblr

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rouge-the-bat

(mspec: short for multi-spectrum attraction, umbrella term for any sexualities for 2+ genders)

♡ also happy mspec lesbian visibility/awareness week!!! 🌙🌙🌸

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gay-otlc

posi-pan

[Image Description: the meme of two arms embraced at the hand. White all caps text edited on the left arm reading “pan people”, on the locked hands reading “having a historic place in the community and being valid as fuck”, and on the right arm reading “mspec lesbians and gays”. End Description.]

some solidarity and love between pan people and mspec lesbians and gays is needed, because we’re both very hated and debated.

we are here. we have been here. we will always be here. loud, ignorant voices will not erase our history or place in the community.

much love to mspec lesbians and gays from this pansexual 💛💛

#cant remember if ive shared this before but hell yeah :)!#positivity #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #pan

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nonegenderleftpain

Well, it's pride month and there's gonna be a bunch of posts like this floating around but I figure I'd go ahead and write up a post negating the TERF and exclusionist beliefs, since all of this discourse is going to come back this month.

Asexual and aromantic people are queer. Ace/aro folks are not cishet infiltrators, they are queer.
Bisexuals and pansexuals both have a long history and neither is transphobic or anti-each other.
Omni- and polysexual folks exist, just as bi and pan folks exist, and these meanings are not synonymous.
Mspec gays and lesbians (bi lesbians, etc) are not homophobic or lesbophobic. Both lesbian and gay have long histories as umbrella terms in the queer community, and attempting to silence older queers who use the terms or younger queers that have picked up the tradition is insufferable.
There is no such thing as a "bihet."
Straight trans, ace, and aro people are still queer. Being straight does not necessarily remove you from the queer community.
Trans is an umbrella that includes nonbinary identities. Nonbinary people are not appropriating trans experiences by using the trans flag.
Microlabels and neopronouns are not "making us look bad" and they are not trendy. How someone identifies is not your concern.
A queer person in a relationship with someone who is not queer does not stop being queer and their relationship is not straight. An mspec person in a relationship with a different gender is not straight. Identity is not determined by your relationships.
Queer was reclaimed decades ago, and self-identifying queers do not owe anyone a censoring of their identity.
Polyamorous people self-identifying as queer are not infiltrating the community, and poly relationships are overwhelmingly queer.
Most importantly: Self-identification will always be more important than any definition. Labels, like humans, are complicated. Some are liberated by them and others are confined by them, and trying to dictate someone's identity to them is not only wrong, it is cruel and antithetical to the queer community's origins. You do not get to choose whether or not someone is who they say they are.

I'm sure there are things I've forgotten - important things. The fact that I genuinely cannot remember all the facets of queer discourse is distressing. The amount of TERF dogwhistles that have infiltrated community conversations is disheartening and the constant intracommunity fighting is doing their work for them. We are together as a rallied front against bigotry, so introducing bigotry into our community only weakens us and leaves us open to more abuse. Take up hands with your fellow queers, and realize we have far more in common than we do different.

bi-lesbian

if you have had exceptions to your sexuality or have extremely rare attraction to certain genders, its okay to label yourself with the inclusion of those exceptions or not- whatever you feel best with describing yourself with is valid.

labels are about how you want to describe your attraction, and how youd like to communicate to others who youre attracted to.

some people dont want to give the impression they like a certain gender if they only very rarely like a few people of that gender. putting a label that says youre interested in men on a dating site, when youre extremely likely to not like any of them, probably isnt very useful.

some may get crushes on people of a certain gender sometimes- but if they ever actively go looking for a relationship, its never really people of that gender, so they typically dont use the label that includes them.

some people think the exceptions to their sexuality are significant, and thus want to specify it in their identity. maybe they use a more general label, or maybe they use a label thats more specific, that explicitly states who theyre more likely to like.

labels arent about ''oh, i check off this list of requirements, so i have to use only this label and nothing else." theyre not prescribed to you based on your experiences with attraction and dating. theyre things you choose to use if you want to, for how youd best like to put your attraction into words.

#queer #positivity #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #ply lesbian #omni lesbian #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #ply gay #omni gay #lesbian #gay #bi #pan #ply #omni #sexuality exceptions

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itscoldinwonderland

I think it's really great when bi people figure themselves out and decide to use other labels in addition to bi! You're bi and identify with being gay or lesbian? Amazing! You're bi and also think queer is a good fit for you? Cool! You're bi and also pansexual? Beautiful! Your bi but prefer labels like fluid or flexible? Fantastic! There is no one way to bi.

#♡♡♡#positivity #bi #bi gay #bi lesbian #queer #pan #bi pan #fluid #flexible #abro #heteroflexible #homoflexible #i think that covers everything in this- my brain is a bit mush rn jfksjd

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stargazing-enby

Happy pride month!

[ID: a series of pride banners with abstract backgrounds that resemble the different flag colours that say: "lesbian and proud, gay and proud, bisexual and proud, trans and proud, pansexual and proud, asexual and proud, aromantic and proud, aroace and proud, questioning and proud, intersex and proud." End ID]

Feel free to use with credit and to request more! (I'll add some other banners in a reblog since I can't add more than 10 images to the post)

stargazing-enby

[ID: some more banners that say: nonbinary and proud, agender and proud, demisexual and proud, polyamorous and proud, genderfluid and proud, genderqueer and proud. End ID]

stargazing-enby

[ID: a fresh batch of banners that read: "polysexual and proud, omnisexual and proud, demiromantic and proud, queer and proud, closeted but proud, bigender and proud, pangender and proud, genderflux and proud, demigirl and proud, demiboy and proud. End ID]

stargazing-enby

[ID: two more banners that say "graysexual and proud, grayromantic and proud". End ID]

stargazing-enby

[ID: two banners that read "androgyne and proud, maverique and proud". End ID]

stargazing-enby

[ID: banners that read: "bi lesbian and proud, trans lesbian and proud, nonbinary lesbian and proud, omni lesbian and proud, ace lesbian and proud, pan lesbian and proud, ply lesbian and proud. End ID]

bi-lesbian

Anonymous asked:

Could you make a series of ace/romantic orientation flags and/or a set of aro/sexuality flags? For example, pan/ace flag, aro/lesbian flag. If they already exist could you link me to them please? Thanks in advance 😊

idk if i wanna take flag requests, but maybe in the future i will idk! it may be fun to make my own of these sometime if i feel like it! anyways i searched around tho and found:

aro/lesbian ♡ ace/lesbian

aro/gay ♡ ace/gay

aro/bi ♡ ace/bi - ace/bi2

aro/pan ♡ ace/pan

i wasnt able to find ones for ply and omni.. but if anyone knows of any for those or alts for the ones i already have feel free to lmk and i can add em on this!

and for the aro pan one i could only find an image on google images that listed it was aro pan but it linked to a site called tumgir that like. didnt even have it posted. and reverse image search only brought to there too fhdkjc shrug ! idk who may have made it, but the image still exists from google, so i linked straight to just the image itself. maybe the op can be found sometime :O edit: actually it seems that its a butch lesbian flag made aroaesflags, so im not sure why it showed up as aro pan when i searched around... so ig i dont have one for that either :O

#bi lesbiask #aro #ace #lesbian #gay #bi #pan #flags

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brujebutchdraws

Flags “Mermaid Merveille" edits for sapphics. I might make more.

Any discourse on this post will get you blocked on the spot.

They’re on Redbubble too! Lesbian/Sappho lesbian/Bi lesbian/Bi/Pan lesbian/Pan.

lesbian-so-queer

@bi-lesbian psst

#OUGH...... CHUBBY MERMAID... AND IN BI LESBIAN COLORS... I DIE....#u have NO idea how much i love this i hfkdjkgjdkjf #i absolutely NEED to get this god #im not out irl still but like ??????? maybe i could. try to discreetly get them #. somehow #ALSO i woulda posted this sooner but i didnt notice the redbubble part at first somehow JGKZJKGK #but anywas like... 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 chubby mermaids give me life i love them so much #mermaid.. me core... and i am chubby... so Hell Yeah #lesbian #sapphic #bi lesbian #bi #pan lesbian #pan #flags #my flags #merch #flag art

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osmoticeel

just making sure y'all know that I'm radically queer and inclusive. some things this includes:

trans women are regular women & should be an integral part of every women's community.
gender dysphoria is a varying and deeply personal experience (I say as a cis woman with butch dysphoria) and can exist independently of medical transition.
nonbinary people don't have to be "man/woman-aligned" (though many are). they're not binary, it says so right there.
define your gender or sexuality however makes you comfortable. all labels were made up by somebody. you have the right to have yours respected.
queer is a useful label & important to a lot of people.
aromantic & asexual people's sexuality is normal and they belong in lgbtq+ spaces.
bi/pan/m-spec women belong in wlw spaces.
whoever else it's popular to invalidate and hate these days in the name of community purism? they're my friends now. hurt them and you fight me.

guess who just followed me? I want to make sure they know they're not welcome. it's 2020, intolerance isn't cool anymore.

#THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!#positivity #bi lesbian #trans #trans women #nonbinary #nb #enby #queer #aro #ace #bi #pan #mspec

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brujebutchdraws

LGBT+ flags “Angel wings” edits. Just because I can.

I put them on Redbubble!

Intersex, Asexual, Aromantic, Pansexual/Panromantic, Bi Lesbian (@bi-lesbian).

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual/Biromantic, Trans, Nonbinary edits.

#omg thats so pretty !!!!#i love it :DDD #intersex #ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #pan #pansexual #panromantic #bi lesbian #flags #my flags #once im able to i wanna get the bi lesbian one...#idk when ill be able to tho :OO #bc i dont have my own money yet and im. not out yet irl cjzbkfjx #merch #flag art

bi-lesbian

More heart emojis!

Bi ♡ Pan ♡ Poly ♡ Omni

#bi #pan #poly #ply #omni #flags #emojis #heart emoji

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aroaesflags

Polyam flags in the colors of other flags using the design by @whimsy-flags

#pretty !!!#polyam #gay #lesbian #bi #nonbinary #trans #aro #pan #ace #flags

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bi-lesbian

pride peridot! first set with the ol LGBT acronym lads, featuring uh, a lot of lesbian versions bc idk what one were going for these days bfkdhfkz ~~and i made an orange/red version bc i really wanted to complete the trio of color combos for the current colors used-~~

pls see the notes for my reblogs with more flags! theyre mostly identities i fall under but feel free to ask for any ones i havent done!

+ bonus template :3

bi-lesbian

Ace - Nonbinary - Agender

Bigender - Genderfluid - Demigirl

bi-lesbian

the italicize ones are ones i made owo !

Bi Lesbian - Feminenby - Fae/Lov Pronouns

Genderfae - Cupio - Lesbienby

Polyam - Polyam by @heckscaper - Polyam by @whimsy-flags

(heckscaper seems to be on private now so the link may not work!)

bi-lesbian

then finally, various flags related to femromantic/sexual or similar terms! third one is an older flag i made for bi lesbian, the rest are not mine

both are Fem-

Bi Lesbian • Fin- • Venus-

both are Woma/Woman-

bi-lesbian

time for more!

Pan - Poly - Omni

Aro - Demisexual - Demiromantic

#pan #poly #ply #omni #aro #demisexual #demiromantic #flags #peridot #steven universe #character pride

bi-lesbian

no one can decide what is valid or not for other peoples identities.

no one can create the rules for peoples personal experiences with their gender, sexuality, or anything.

the existence of one identity is not an invalidator for another identity in any shape or form.

people can define themselves in whatever feels most comfortable by their own ideas and relationships with words.

if you dont like someones identity and how they express themselves, its never okay to invalidate them and yell your thoughts on their own identity at them.

its not your place.

its never your place.

#bi lesbian #mogai #neopronouns #tucute #lgbt+#lgbt #nb girl #nb woman #nb boy #nb man #enby #nb #trans #positivity #i think?#pan lesbian #pan #just in general bc im sick of this bi vs pan bullshit #butch #femme