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Remember that there is no need to rush things in your transition. Just like how hormones will take time to feminize your appearance and thinking, you may need time to think about how you will come out fully as a girl. This is your journey and only you will choose the outcomes to your transition.
Transitioning didn’t just feminize your body into a soft girl. Your wardrobe is full of leggings and cute tops while your mind now craves the attention of being noticed. Loving these changes affirm your identity as a trans girl. It’s a sign of you growing into your true self.
You look back at your old pics and discard the ones you don’t need anymore. Suddenly, you noticed this pic of a hot girl in leggings. Of course she’s hot, this was you a few months after SRS! How could you forget, this was the night you made out and slept for the first time with your now long-term boyfriend. You can’t believe time has passed so fast since then. But just as you receive an invite from a friend who is hosting an impromptu Girl’s Night event, you send this pic to your partner and save it on your favorites. If you can go back to the past, you will definitely recreate that night. Hopefully he’ll get the memo 😉
Everyone has their “coming out” moment, including you. The biggest barrier, however, is accepting yourself. Not everybody who is transgender instantly accepts their identity and comes out. Some are not be able to transition due to family, health, career, resources, etc. Some of them even deny their identity and try to hide it with negative ideals. But there will come a day where hiding your trans identity won’t be possible anymore, leaving you no choice but to come out. Sure, you will lose some friends, family, opportunities, and such. But you will also lose your gender dysphoria, sleep deprivation, and other things affecting you. You will also end up ditching the toxic masculinity and humiliating sissy ideologies as well. Remember, your transgender identity is not a kink, fetish, etc. meant for exploitation. It’s who you are. Once that happens, she will be free from her handcuffs and you will then realize that the girl inside is you...
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Your clothes, movements, appearance, manners, interests, thoughts… everything about you is becoming feminized. You’re so glad on coming out as a trans girl (or femboy). What type of feminine person you’ll be from here on is by choice now, dear ☺️🎀🛍👗👛💄💅💁🏻♀️💇🏻♀️💕
It’s easier to give up an old phase as opposed to an old hobby. If only the adults in your life knew about "growing up”.
Hormones not only physically changed you, but mentally as well. You get giddier and nervous when you’re around guys, but you tried to oppress it as you always liked girls. That changed when you met the photographer who’s in his third gig with you. You seem more confident and relaxed with him as he also shows interest in you. Perhaps it’s time to go with the attraction changes. Maybe you confused your attraction of girls with envy . You always did wanted to be the schoolgirl in love with her prince charming.
-Scarlett Madison is such a mood. The pic captures the sexiness and playful innocent look on girls with a flirty attitude. Are you a trans girl who is experiencing a change in attraction? Its okay. Let her take over and explore. Your true interests will blossom one day.
Face the changes, literally. Your face already looks feminine enough. But your chest and bum look even bigger. Perhaps it’s time to stop “boymoding” and start to “girlmode”. Boys don’t have your new features anyway.
It’s Pronouns Day, a relatively new holiday that brings awareness of how we should use an individual’s preferred pronouns. For instance, cis and trans women prefer She/Her pronouns, cis and trans men prefer He/Him, gender non-confirming people prefer They/Them, etc. Terms like sissy or f*ggt, on the other hand, are NOT pronouns! They are nicknames, and pejorative ones as well. They invalidate people from presenting their ideal gender expression and identity. While I have no problem with you or anyone identifying as a sissy, I am not one of them. So please respect people’s pronouns, regardless of your opinion of them. I hardly ever ask this, but if you agree, reblog this post. Your pronouns are valid!
I hope beyond hope that this caption is coming across the right way. It makes me happy to know that lots of people are crossing over a threshold on this day. But I also have a huge heart for those who aren’t there yet. I’m saddened by that dynamic, but still cheer for them. Their day is coming. Maybe my day is coming (as in more outward as a girly boy). Who knows. Maybe that day never arrives. Regardless of how that all plays out, every person is unique, special, and worthy of having a day when their true selves can be celebrated–whether alone or with many, today or some other day.
Love you all
Candie
National Coming Out Day can be pressuring for people who aren’t ready. This post lets us know that every trans person has their own coming out day. If you didn’t came out on October 11, don’t worry. It’s never too late to transition later.
You thought you were cis, turns out you’re a sis.
SO so right!
Your first time out as a girl will feel scary. But your fear will reduce once you notice people perceive you as one. At that point, the next step is to transition.
A little black dress can change everything. It lets all your feminine aura out and shows off your curves. Let your inner girl out and be happy with yourself.
Why be a sissy when you can be a sister? Come out as trans and let your feminine self out, girl.
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You can’t hide your true feelings forever. The more you purge, the more you’re likely to crack out your inner shell. And when it does, you’ll feel free.
If we had more positive encouragement like this, expressing your feminine side would be seen in a more positive light for AMAB/AFAB people, femboys, transgirls, non-binary, and people outside of the cisgender norms. Befriend supporting ciswomen and allies who will care about you.
Transitioning is easier said than done for those who fear to lose their families, friends, careers, and partners. But hiding yourself for too long will cause you fall apart. Whether you’re 30, 40 or past 50 years old, it is never too late to come out as trans. Your transition to happiness will come sooner than later.
The fear of going out as a girl will disappear when you let yourself out. And when your manners, words, movements, behaviors, and interests slowly change from your past self, you will realize that she is your true self. Especially when your girl friends point out the increased attention from guys and girls alike.
