I'm finding it extremely difficult to let anyone back in after my heart was destroyed, over and over. I met this new girl who was lovely at first but now I get angry with her because she cares so much for me.. idk what to do :( always happens.
It’s aways really hard to let someone in after we have been hurt. It’s understandable. And often sometimes we’ve already let them in before we realise. It’s alright to care for someone, and it’s so nice to know that someone cares for you :) just try to breathe and try not to act on impulse if you feel like you’re about to get mad. just try to analyse the reason why you’re upset because obviously sometimes there are other issues involved in these emotions too. Just also try and be up front. Let her know why you’re getting upset some of these times and just let her know it really isn’t her fault. Chances are, she will totally get it