what actually really still bothers me about orym invalidating Dorian's suffering (over something ashton said) --y'know other than a Character of colour being shut down in favour of a white character's whatever-- is that no one stood up for Dorian.
No one. no one stood up for Dorian in the slightest.
no one pushed against orym. no one challenged him, despite everyone there knowing the level of unnecessary cruel weight (to a loved one) in his words.
#and it's not even a case of minding their own business#they have come to back orym up over his trauma and anti-ludinus-at-the-cost-of-everything stances#i'm not bothered with a character being an ass and making a huge mistake#but i'm super bothered by no one else seeing it as a mistake in the first place#no one holding him responsible#critical role#Dorian Storm#orym of the air ashari#i'm craving and dreading thursday#because i i'm afraid the entire ep will be taken up by vasselheim#and we won't get anything on this