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Ok, I know I typically am the one who gives advice but this time I need it.
I enter a relationship with a heterosexual man recently, he is someone I’ve know for nearly 2 years and when we brought up dating he said he was fine with me being ace. Well lately we’ve been talking about the possibility of marriage. But he and I are worried how our relationship will work when he wants sex and I don’t. As some of you know I am a sex-repulsed ace and have always been worried about being in relationships for that very reason. I really like this guy and he wants to compromise we just don’t know how. I’ll take any help I can get.
Thanks guys,
Asexual in Distress
Sorry for the delayed post but HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! I’m quite proud ^_−☆ of this picture and hope you all like it as well!!
Happy new year and all that good stuff! Sorry I’ve been a little absent lately, I’ve been in a weird place and having a hard time figuring things out. I have a new Pride art piece, hopefully, coming in the near future (๑>◡<๑)
I’m proud of all of you and remember to always be proud of yourself!!
Hi there! So glad I found you I really appreciate your gentle and welcoming vibes :)
I have an 'ethical' quandary of sorts. I recently came out as ace to heteronormy husband of 9 yrs. He was phenomenal about it, super supportive. We've had a seemingly normative intimate life for the last 13 yrs, but I can't help but feel a bit guilty about thinking about sex differently than he does. For me, I like making him feel happy wanted and loved and have (sadly?) gleaned from media what a guy like him would want. I feel a little sad that sexual attraction has never been there, but strong romantic & physical make up for that on my end.
For me sex is theater & spectator sport. I've got some mental philias/kinks that get me thru it but would take care of myself all the same and still be content in marriage. Libido is just an itch to scratch... I've been wired like this since I was a kid and blogs like yours are taking me far away from feeling like a broken person...
Wondering what your take is on being with someone who's sexuality is different than your own and grappling with what sometimes feels like compromise/manipulation/deceit? (Please and thank you and sorry for novel!!)
First of all, thank you for saying my blog is welcoming, that’s the feel I’ve really been trying to go for so that anyone and everyone feels safe to talk about any problems they have. I hope I can keep this up for a long time and have my little family grow even bigger.
Ok, so that being said, you shouldn’t feel guilty about your sexuality. That’s not something we choose but it is something we should embrace. As a part of you, your asexuality is part of your relationship, and since coming out to your husband there might be some changes you guys may need or want to make, so you can feel more heard and secure in the relationship.
Don’t feel like you are/were being deceitful. It causes many people anxiety to come out, especially to someone we care deeply about, it makes it really hard with all the “what if’s” going through your mind. Its great you were able to find the courage and the peace of mind to tell him.
I hope this helped, if only a little, and that everything goes well for you guys in the future. And you’re always welcome and accepted here (⌒▽⌒)
Merry Christmas and happy holidays!
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can you give me your twitch link? i cant find it :(
Here you go!! Thank you for the support!!!!
Lesbians!!! You beautiful people! Your dress is here.
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Please Help Me, I’m Desperate. - Dental Emergency Extended
Post Made: 05/29/2021
Hey everyone. My name’s Jack, I’m a 22 year old transman living with my disabled wife, her family and our baby animals. I don’t want to have to ask for help from anyone, but I don’t have any family that can help me and I’ve received the most help and care from my family on tumblr than anywhere else.
I’m updating this post with the finished care plan and amount that I need, as well as the date so no one thinks the post is old. I’m desperate and don’t have any other means to save myself from the pain me and my family are going through right now because of this. I have insurance, but they only cover 1000 dollars of emergency and has already been used.
I am in severe pain from all of the problems I have in my mouth. I just was treated for a tooth infection, but after examination they let me know I’m bordering on another severe infection in two of my teeth. I need TWO root canals still and have no way to pay for that, but they’re warning me that I don’t have a lot of time and need to be seen as soon as possible to avoid further infections. [In the pictures above, one of the plans is for the two root canals, and the other plan is to treat the amount of severe decay I have.] I also have IMPACTED wisdom teeth that need to come out soon, but I can’t focus on that when there are other problems
I can’t and don’t expect the full cost from tumblr, because its a little under 6000 dollars in total and thats a lot. I need around 2000 to get what I need done, and that would prevent me from having another emergency extraction needed. I’m doing everything I can to earn the money on my own, I had been looking for a job but I can’t even interview when I’m in this much pain and so for now we live off of a very fixed income.
My wife has been terrified since I’ve gotten the infection, she’s unable to ever relax because of fear that I’m not going to be okay, and it’s flaring up her epilepsy. It’s affecting everyone around me, and I’m really just desperate for things to be okay. I’ve been taking care of my teeth, and they say that if I get these fixed I shouldn’t run into any more problems. Please, I really am begging at this point, my entire body hurts. I can post receipts if needed, and anything I get WILL go to fixing these emergencies. I hope to be giving back as soon as I can, because anything helps. Even 1 dollar, it all adds up when someone decides to help. Spreading the word also helps more than I can say. Thank you so much.
My moms PAYPAL is paypal.me/tcmazzi or the email is [email protected] if that works better
Her cashapp account is $tcmazzi
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Took a little break to animate this happy proud little friend ❤️
I’m reblogging the original because I was getting an overwhelming amount of hate and backlash over the tags and non credit to the artist. I apologize to the creator and the people I offended