hope is a skill

hope is a weapon you are trained to wield

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You cannot hide this in the tags, bestie. This is too lovely to keep a secret.

the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

“I don’t know how to reconcile that my favorite piece of media was made by someone awful.” Because they’re a shitty person who made something good. It’s not that rare of a phenomenon. Shitty people make good things everyday. A piece of art being made by a terrible person does not make its effect null and void and making good art does not redeem a terrible person. People who are irredeemably nasty can say something true and honest on occasion. To reevaluate a work after finding out more about the artist’s horrendous biases and actions and still find things that are honest and true even when consuming it through a critical lens, that is a beautiful thing. If the artist’s actions and words completely destroy it for you and distort the meaning you once found, it’s okay to feel a sense of mourning and loss at that.

This is not to say that you should continue to lavish social and financial capital on the artist because you enjoy their art but to say that enjoying art made by horrible people does not mean you are in some way unclean.

want to start being really mean and toxic I hate all of you sincerely

hey invis …

DSMP COORDINATES:

Spawn: 64 64 -101

Cookie Outpost: -91 79 -57

Las Nevadas: -175 93 -17

Portal Hub: 179 74 -242

Community House: 250 69 -247

Eret's Fortress: 243 64 -302

Kinoko Kingdom: 263 71 398

Church Prime: 285 64 -342

Logstedshire: 637 71 -2046

Techno's Cabin: -88 74 -2460

Techno's Vault: -123 72 -2529

Foolish's Summer Home: -700 70 600

Ranboo's Lab: -1311 23 -8614

Disc Finale: -209 211 3309

Niki's City: 286 51 533

Callahan's Bitch Shack: 357 71 -325

Eret's Museum: 313 71 -437

Tubbo's Jungle Base: 223 65 12215

Guardian Farm: 1318 40 13000

Schlatt's Grave: 336 69 -604

Wilbur's Ball House: 307 82 -633

L'manberg's Courthouse: 375 122 -535

Wilbur's Memorial: 456 66 -575

Among Us Bunker: -210 53 39

Syndicate Meeting Room: -369 33 -2417

The Lost City of Mizu: 13979 100 12937

there's something about the fact that pogtopia is such a narrow space with bad lighting (i had to put down a billion torches just to see) that makes it impossible to get a good picture of the ensemble. you can get a few pretty snapshots with headers but it's impossible to visualise the whole of it and have it look good. theres something in there

or maybe i just don't know how to get good screenshots. this is also a possibility

struggle

finally my dreams are coming true….

going on record to say charlie slimecicle was their third? that they slutted him out? he was their bimbo?

So who’s gonna make the dsmp public server where we all pitch in to rebuild lmanberg because it never deserved what happened to it

alright now I’m not sure about uploading major clips from someone’s patreon page just because everyone’s talking about it. like mm. maybe let’s use our heads.

by the way this isn’t referring to a two-minute clip, this is referring to the full NINE MINUTE RIP someone uploaded despite the fact that topic was generating massive traction for SUIT like come the fuck on guys.

it is absolutely insane to me that dream stans are fully saying shit like “um…. Why are they talking shit about dream but not wilbur” as if people are not allowed to dislike more than one person, that’s like if I started talking about how much I hate food poisoning and someone decided to butt in with “but what about cyanide poisoning” like bitch obviously that sucks too but that is NOT the topic of conversation right now