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Anonymous asked:

Do Jews celebrate Valentine’s Day and Halloween? These holidays have Christian roots. If celebrating the fun secular parts of Halloween and Valentine’s Day isn’t frowned upon, why is it so bad to celebrate the fun secular parts of Christmas or Easter?

Halloween is a Celtic festival. It’s a great community event and a fun time. I love Halloween, its secular Purim!

I don’t celebrate Valentine’s day beyond eating chocolates I buy for myself. Not only does the Christian connection bother me, but I find the common practice of shoving all your romance for the year into a single day to be distasteful and shallow.

Although I don’t know anyone who actually celebrates it, there’s also Tu B'Av.

While I know this isn’t as common as I believed growing up, a lot of Jewish families (including mine) do frown upon celebrating the “fun secular parts” of Halloween and Valentine’s Day, because both of them were originally religious celebrations. @if-i-am-not-for-me is correct that Halloween originated as a Celtic festival and was only later made a Christian one, but the Celtic roots of the holiday are very much religious. I know pagans who currently celebrate it as one of the holiest days of the year.

In the spirit of neighborliness I will always keep candy on hand to give to trick-or-treaters if they come by my house on Halloween, same as my parents always did, but that’s the extent of what I do for either of those days.

(Unless you count going to buy half-price holiday chocolate the day after each, along with the day after Christmas and the day after Easter, those being the four days of what my friend @camwyn calls the Feast of St. Marked Down.)

#informative#jewish#jewish issues#fandom issues#judaism misconceptions#holidays#cultural christianity#halloween#valentines#valentines day#purim is not just jewish halloween#tu bav#paganism#celtic#judaism is not xtianity#judaism is not paganism#amatonormativity#(Its true I rbed off and on about Halloween {or canon materials covering it etc} in the past here before 2015)#(but I was always under the impression lurkers even pre 2k15 *knew* it *wasnt* a holiday celebrated by All Religions + Judaism in general)#(Apparently I Was *Very* Wrong that Most People Knew That)#(So when I rbed about Halloween I was mainly viewing it from an Interfaith families perspective)#(i.e. I wouldnt have bitten a relatives head off if they INVITED me to their Halloween gathering)#(but even all my relatives know I do NOT 'celebrate' it within any sort of religious or Paganism contexts +only 'join' *their* gatherings)#(so I would hope my followers and mutuals can actually understand this properly about me too)#(Valentines is+was a similar context for me in that I agree with what the OP was mentioning there re: the amatonormativity of it all)#(Ive seen Tu Bav brought up more in Jewish circles online in recent years though which has been really interesting for me since 2k15 negl)#(The point being you SHOULDNT be expecting EVERYONE 'celebrates' these holidays religiously or not by default *because many dont*)#(If someone tells you they dont celebrate either especially if theyre from another culture or religion or are Jewish *RESPECT THAT*)#(Try directly acknowledging the holidays they DO observe and bring them up once in a while too youll make their day Trust Me)#*Reblogging for Archival
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Happy Valentine's day!

If you're arospec and don't like romance, you're valid on this day.

If you're arospec and are neutral about romance, you're valid on this day.

If you're arospec and do like romance, you're valid on this day.

If you're arospec and in a romantic relationship, you're valid on this day.

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If you're arospec and single, you're valid on this day.

If you're arospec, you're valid on this day.

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