aph-japan reblogged
ADHD and autism is basically being considered rude for the dumbest reasons
those reasons are usually 1. ADHD/autistic person didn’t literally read your mind for the Correct Social Cue(s) 2. ADHD/autistic person has a need or a boundary that doesn’t actually harm anyone, but it’s not a Correct Social Cue thing so you think they shouldn’t
3. ADHD/autistic person forgot/didn’t realise/doesn’t know/is just too damn tired to perform the Correct Tone
4. ADHD/Austistic person struggled to understand/ needed a seemingly obvious thing clarified or explained to them and got accused of sealioning/asking in bad faith.
#actuallyautistic#autism#autism problems#autistic traits#social cues#missing social cues#ableism#societal ableism#anti autistic ableism#boundaries#sensory overload#bad faith assumptions#autism stereotypes#the mean one#the rude one#the asshole#adhd#adhd relevant#stop calling every single Autistic person you meet or come across as intentionally mean or rude or an asshole or suspicious#autistic demonization#(even worse if you continuously imply theyre being intentionally mean to you *because were Autistic*)#(yet worse is the assumption were deliberately being ~~an asshole~~ to you *because youre ALLISTIC*)#(Which isnt true when Allistics are the ones who oppress us FYI)