aph-japan reblogged
it’s okay if you don’t love
yes, i mean at all.
people - including a lot of aros - talk about aros as if we’re okay because we still love. because we have platonic love and queerplatonic love and familial love and alterous love. but some of us don’t.
then they go to interests. you love your interests, right?? but some of us don’t. or at least not in the way they think.
and that’s okay.
we’re okay.
love ≠ value
#hetaces#lgbtqiapn#lgbtqiapn informative#aro#arospec#aro informative#arospec informative#aroace#loveless aros#the aro community is for all aros#anti relationships hierarchy#anti gatekeeping#*reblogging for the Commentary#*Please Do Not Derail#unpartnered#nonpartnered#nonpartnering#(Pointing Out)#(from Autistic view)#('Love of Interests' may not mean the same thing to us Either)#(thats kind of a different thing I'll elaborate on at some point but)#arospec autistics relevant#aromantic spectrum#spectrums#(Literally please just learn to respect Arospec identities regardless of how they're IDng)#aro validation#validation#arospec intracommunity issues#aspec intracommunity issues