I’m gonna need white gays in fandom to chill with the “ugh het ships” when it comes to pairings with POC, specifically black women.
like black women are considered the least attractive race of women across the board. So when there’s representation of a black woman being loved on regardless of the gender of her partner(s), it is very important that it not be treated as business as usual or “just another het ship”
I mean give me all the gay ships, if it’s gay I’m here for it 100%, anybody who’s followed me any amount of time knows that. But I’m not about to act like black women being loved and desired is the status quo, even if it’s by a man