#actuallynonnormativefamily#izumis relevant#koushiros child#adoption#m.a.s.h#mash: series#lgbtqiapn#queer media#queer history#adoption in media#adoption representation#queer families#gay men#gay#gay representation#watchlist#mlm#i always meant to watch mash at least once but still need to#mash was way before my time#(but Significant)#(if this by itself is any indication)#op are u adopted#bionormative assumptions#bionormativity#societal bionormativity#my parents doctors told them they cant have children on their own#({infertility and queerness are two very different things but both are significant and deserve to be treated with respect})#op do you know what infertility actually is or do you make fun of it bi-weekly on twitter with your 'moots' at the expense of other fans??#just saying#({Considering people will *literally come up to us asking stuff like that* and then refuse to listen seriously when we answer them {Yeah})