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Just a reminder my blog is trans inclusive. It’s bi inclusive. It is pan inclusive. It is intersex inclusive. It is ace/asexual inclusive. It is aro/aromantic inclusive. It is queer inclusive.
I don’t support terfs or exclusionists.
If you came here looking for an ally in your bigotry you came to the wrong blog. Go away. You are not welcome here.
Fact: There is no gatekeeper in the world who can keep you from being who you are.
you will never beat the biphobia allegations until you radically accept bisexuals who are stereotypical. you must accept the sluts, the polyamorous, the girls with straight boyfriends, the questioning, the confused, the ones who want to be another couple's unicorn, the ones who are in a phase and will eventually identify differently, and even the ones you suspect aren't truly bisexual but just want attention. take people at their word when they tell you who they are. let them live and express their identity as they see fit. happy bi visibility day
Also how many types of people do the stereotypes cover. I mean. By the time you list all the top ten most Insufferable Bisexuals you’ve listed a whole village of perfectly normal people
[Image Description: A purple color block with text that reads “pansexual and bisexual - it’s okay to be both”]
Happy bisexual visibility day!
“What I’d really like? I’d really, really like to see some gay people arguing it for me. I’d like to see gay people taking an active part in looking at the spaces they create, and asking how they can make them inclusive of bi people. How they can make the bi people who are already there feel welcome. I’d like to see gay people taking a long, hard look at their own actions and doing the work of deconstructing the ways in which they exclude bis. I’d like to see them acknowledging how their biphobia and bi erasure hurt people. I’d like to see them calling out when bisexuality is treated as a joke or pushed aside. I’d like an apology.”
Bi Serena for anon
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yesterday two separate bisexuals asked me if I was bisexual (I am). when I asked how they guessed, neither could provide an explanation beyond "you just give off a vibe." interestingly, this was on a rare occasion when there was nothing about my appearance (genderfuckery clothes, pride pins, my usual blue hair) to signal queerness.
In conclusion: either bisexuals have homing instincts that allow us to hone in on each other in public, or I specifically am radiating Massive Bisexual Energy Waves™ identifiable to other queer people in my vicinity. these are both excellent options
"oh you're bi too? haha attracted to every woman and five men amiright" don't put words in my mouth. don't put your baggage on me. if you saw the men i wanted to fuck you'd hurl.
“I like women because they’re amazing and I like men because I can’t stop making bad decisions haha.”
Well when I like women it’s because I’m fucking awesome, and when I like men it’s because I’m fucking awesome. Your take on your own sexuality fucking sucks, I’m better than you.
Anytime someone who isn’t bisexual thinks they can have an opinion on “good bi rep” and speak over the actual bi community they personally owe me $20.
(Image description: the bisexual, omnisexual, polysexual, pansexual, multisexual, and abrosexual pride flags with the words “radical acceptance not conditional tolerance” centered in white text.)
pet peeve of mine whenever I talk about being bisexual online and people want to make it about them
I love being bisexual but the second I talking about liking dudes I get people in my mentions going "ew dudes I'm only into women" and it's like. Hm. Well I'd like to do this to you
Friendly reminder that Graham Chapman was out and talking about bisexuality on a national late night talk show in 19-fucking-82.
