girlwithapomegranate-deactivate
I think it’s really cruel to continue to hang around/ interact with people that have severely hurt your friends. im not talking about petty arguments but it really says something if your disregard the pain someone has caused a person close to you all for the sake of socializing and your image.
#harampolice#psa#blog psa#abuse#emotional abuse#abusive friendships#friendship#bad friends#(TBH)#(T B H T B H T B H)#(I was meaning to reblog this)#(I do have patience yeah)#(but if I see you frequently interacting)#(with people who are clearly involved)#(in LGBTQIA+ discourses)#(or with people who have emotionally abused or hurt others in the fandoms)#(y e a h)#(that's a problem)#(and I don't have to acknowledge you)#(no I'm not going to 'coexist' with someone)#(who consistently and emotionally manipulates entire fandoms or attempts to)#(and yeah I see right through that)#(I was quiet for a long time in regards to such matters when I . shouldn't have been)#(but yeah I see that)#(it also puts people in a really tough place)#(where they have to choose their friends over their SAFETY)#(and yeah after some incredibly bad experiences in the past we're talking circa 2012 era here)#(I'm not doing that again)#(it was bad enough when my own friends suffered from this happening to them)#(I've even had things said to ME numerous times that made me severely question my trust in certain people)