aph-japan reblogged
You have to learn how to say no without you feeling like you’re being mean. Setting boundaries is how you see who does and doesn’t respect you, your time, or your emotional well-being. Anyone who sees your boundaries and thinks your being mean or tries to push that boundaries is not a person you owe your time or attention.
#not fandom#text post#text#psa#important#boundaries#respect#(this)#(this this this this this this thi)#(the amount of times i saw people push my friends' boundaries)#(and make or pressure them into doing things they didn't want to do....)#(the amount of times my own boundaries were broken by such people because they couldn't take 'no' for an answer)#(when I was putting my foot down because I became uncomfortable)#(yeah)#(I recognize when this happens and I don't like those types of people)#(I may be silly and overly anxious a lot but I'm not naive)#(and while my anxiety is a continuous physical problem from childhood too)#(a lot of my anxiety was caused by issues like this negl)#(... a lot of it still is)#(but nowadays it's just making me disappointed when people are... like this)#(and don't even recognize they're acting like this when it's so obvious)