aph-japan reblogged
parents when i'm 12: don't date anyone! focus on school!
me: okay
parents when i'm 15: and don't have sex with anyone! wait until later!
me: sure
parents when i'm 20: um so are we ever gonna meet a partner or a lover...?
me: nah
#not fandom#text post#text#ME#parents#(this)#(this this this this this thi)#(ok so not my parents exactly)#(more like society in general?? i mean)#(someone finally said it)#(looks @ ship discourse too with this)#(why does this still happen)#(confession: i uh have never actually been on a date ever ???)#(part of that is because of my own hesitance uh b u t)#(literally what even is dating how do people do it why is society like this too)#(i am so tired)#(like even syaosaku have dated meanwhile)#(meanwhile looks over in kagepro's direction like literally he's older than syaosaku ??? and they act like that over it sometimes just)#(i can probably say i'm not aro that is at least just uh. yeah)#(and then people just expect you to randomly go out and date like how even does it work how even)#(edit well the kagepro chara is one year less when you compare to clear card syaosaku but still his birthday is like four months away i am s#(plus syaosaku got together when they were like 10!! 10!!! and everyone ships that but meanwhile other ships?? what other ships ??)#(*i am so tired)#(*edit this goes for certain aph ships too like especially the ones where they're already implied to be like a 'young woman' y e a h)#(even worse are the ones who judge based on how old you look like i'm like 5'0 i can't help it leave me alone)#(aph japan!!! is!!! taller then me h o w even just. sobs forever)#(*edit adds professor layton fandom too y e a h just sighs forever)#(oh i edited a tag and everything is lowercase now ok i was kinda screaming about this earlier just ahhhhh)#(man i really do hope that new adaptations for those fandoms though start bringing in more new fans that don't act like ..... that y e a h)