aph-japan reblogged
*groans externally, because I can no longer internalize it* PLEASE DONT CALL YOUR PARENTS SPERM/EGG DONORS. THEY MADE YOU AND RAISED YOU. I’m not saying there aren’t shitty parents, okay? Those are called deadbeat parents. Sperm/egg donors are people who either selflessly or for the money (tbh, idgaf) give up a part of themselves for people who can’t have children any other way. Don’t downplay that please.
I think this needs to make another appearance.
#actuallynonnormativefamily#actuallydonorchild#donor children#donor children informative#donor children issues#infertility#artificial insemination#non normative families#*Reblogging for Archival#wild how we cant even call ourselves by the terms that actually describe us and or our biological parent#meanwhile every single person from a normative family type will do this kind of thing daily {+over shipwank!!!!}#({and even people from other Non normative families who arent donor children will do this!!!})#(literally just use)#deadbeat parents#deadbeat dad#parenting#just because you hate your {'deadbeat'} dad doesnt mean *i have to hate mine*#just because you hate your parents or even *your adoptive parents* doesnt mean we donor children have to hate ours#like get over yourselves#i should be able to talk abt my experience too without you 'joking' *to me* or other donor children negatively about your '''sperm donor'''#infertility is NOT AN INSULT#(get over your)#internalized ableism#(too)#*not up for debate!#(I Am Just Reblogging in Agreement)