aph-japan reblogged
“If somebody is investing time, resources, and energy into convincing you of your own worthlessness, that same somebody has revealed to you that they have a lot to lose if you don’t believe them. They’re protecting their own loss of power. Which means they perceive you as somebody who can take that power away. If somebody is putting in the work to knock you down, it’s because they’ve got something to fear about you if you’re standing up.”
— Harriet J., “On Interpersonal Badness (You Are Worthless, Let’s Be Friends)” (x)
#actuallysociallyanxious#actuallygad#mental health#mental health issues#social anxiety#worthlessness#self worth#quote#bullying#dont feed the trolls#(The link here seems dead but)#good commentary#friendship issues#you do not get to come to my blog or any of my socials including dreamwidth and repeatedly insist to my face that im worthless#you do not get to mock me or use anti autistic terms to my face or repeatedly and knowingly use them around me#by that point youre no longer my friend#or maybe they werent in the first place#APRIL is autism acceptance aka PRIDE MONTH#it is still april#*Reblogging for Archival#*Reblogging for the Quote#*NOT UP FOR DEBATE I AM JUST Reblogging in Agreement