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Why I oppose ABA as a method of instruction

Content warning: This is a post about ABA.

The primary reason I think ABA is irredeemable: ABA uses behavior modification as a primary method of instruction. I think that is inherently demeaning, counterproductive and dangerous. 

ABA therapy relies on continuous extrinsic motivation, which means conditioning the person it’s being done to to comply with a lot of things that they’re actively unwilling to do for several hours a week over and over. It means making them do things that make no sense to them, over and over for many hours a week. That’s dangerous. It’s especially dangerous for people with disabilities who have complex communication needs.

It’s dangerous to make a kid do things that make no sense to them over and over and over while relying on extrinsic reinforcement. That teaches them that people in positions of power can do whatever they want to them, and that they have no right to protest or understand or influence things. ABA leaves people subject to it very, very vulnerable to abuse. Extreme conditioned obedience is dangerous, and it’s the most persistently reinforced behavior in ABA therapy. It’s generalized to other environments, and does not go away once therapy ends. 

There’s also a few secondary problems with ABA, which are deeply embedded in the culture of the BACB:

The goals of therapy are often bad in themselves. Eg:

  • Teaching a kid not to stim
  • getting them to say a few words by rote
  • insisting on eye contact
  • making a kid spend hours and hours on facial expression flash cards at the expense of age appropriate academics

(For some good discussion of the issue of bad goals, see “Would You Accept this Behavior Towards a Non-Autistic Child?“ by an SLP specializing in AAC.) 

The reinforcers are often unethical even when the goals have merit.

  • ABA depends on extrinsic motivation in order to make people subject to it cooperate.
  • This used to routinely involve pain and food deprivation, and sometimes still does.
  • (Neither is actually prohibited by the ethical guidelines of the BACB, although they do mildly discourage it).

Aversives have fallen somewhat out of favor in recent years, partly due to public outcry over them. That does not solve the problem, and a lot of common reinforcers are not much of an improvement.

ABA therapists talk about using things like bubbles, tickles and praise - but those things are not, in the long term, reliably sufficient to get anyone to comply with many hours a week of boring therapy.

What does work is taking everything a child (or adult) cares about, and making their access to it contingent on compliance in therapy. That’s an awful thing to do to someone, and it can seriously impair their ability to care about anything or communicate about anything. If you know that showing interest in something means it will be taken away, it’s going to be hard to show interest. 

I think that’s inherent to this kind of therapy - ultimately, you have to either get intrinsic motivation or use really invasive extrinsic motivation. But even if that problem was solvable, I’d still be opposed to ABA as an educational method, because of the primary problem that behavior motivation is not defensible as a primary educational approach. Educational approaches should be about teaching, not about behavior modification.

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I find that when you’re open about an aspect of yourself that society is used to people hiding they say this sort of thing. Gender non-conforming people are told that they’re more than their gender, non-straight people are told that they’re more than their sexuality, and neurodiverse people told that you’re more than their neurodiversity. Yes, I’m more than my autism, but it’s still a part of me that I’m loud, and proud of, and if others don’t like that then that’s their problem.

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I hate this comparison! Autism is talked about like it's some deadly disease. It's been compared to cancer, diabetes and AIDS, which isn't just insulting to autistic people, it's also insulting to people dealing with cancer, diabetes and AIDS!
As the child of a cancer survivor I implore you, just stop this. Autism isn't a disease, it's just a different neurotype.
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as an autistic kid I got criticized for not making eye contact. so as an adult I trained myself to make very consistent eye contact (easier said than done). this in turn has led to some people telling me it’s “kinda weird” that I “stare so much.” the moral of this story is there is actually no pleasing neurotypicals

tags: fuck it I’m just gonna be weird then. I would rather live a comfortable life openly displaying harmless autistic traits than constantly work to suppress normal behaviors, just to avoid the casual judgement of strangers who don’t appreciate me anyway. 

obviously this isn’t an option for everyone all of the time, some schools, workplaces, etc will be more hostile than others. and of course everyone monitors their behavior different in private vs public. but my life has gotten much easier since i decided to stop caring about whether random people think there’s something odd about me. I no longer care if the receptionist at the doctor’s office thinks I talk funny. I don’t care if people on the sidewalk think my hand gestures are weird. I don’t care if the random dude I’m making small talk with thinks that my conversation style is strange. I’m not hurting anyone, and autistic people are allowed to be visibly autistic and still exist in public. 

this goes for all types of neurodiversity. when people label neurodiverse behaviors as ‘weird’ that is just plain ignorance. And I am tired of catering to ignorance

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That being said, if you're allistic and find yourself being mad at an autistic person because of something you haven't actually communicated to them because you feel that you "shouldn't have to say it" and that "they'd figure it out if they really cared to", then YOU are in fact the one causing a problem and the one who needs to work on improving your communication skills

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the cultural boogeyman of the faker is such a convenient lie for ableism. Waste your time fighting about who does and does not deserve help, and maybe you wont realizes that there was never any help to begin with. The is no epidemic of malingerers taking up resources they don't need, there is a lack of resources for disabled people

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Un-normalize having to apologize for not getting the joke. Eradicate having to insult your own intelligence just because you find someone else to be unclear. You have nothing to be sorry for. You've done nothing wrong. People who call you dumb or mock you, or even just expect you to apologize for the way your brain works, are ableist shits who don't deserve you.

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I love you autistic people, I love you stimming, I love you people who are considered “awkward” and “weird,” I love you special interests, I love you autistic people with incredibly specific special interests, I love you autistic people who emote “too much,” I love you autistic people who emote “too little,” I love you nonverbal and semiverbal autistic folks, I love you autistic people who talk a lot, I love you reclamation of cringe culture, I love you autistic people who have low/no empathy, I love you hyper-empathetic autistic people, I love you comfort items-

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Flashback Friday: Originally posted September 22, 2019

Being autistic simply means that my brain is wired differently. "Curing" me would mean completely rewiring my brain. There's no way I'd still be the same me after that. I like who I am, autism and all, and I wouldn't want to change that for anything.

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