grinds my gears

nothing more annoying than the situation where a long time friend wants to be more than friends.

you know 'dating'

but then.. you don't want to, you gently deny this option. you do not want to date your best friend and  YOU KNOW WHAT that is PERFECTLY FUCKING FINE.

then you get the whole WE'VE BEEN FRIENDS FOR SO LONG WHY NOT? then pull all kinds of emotional manipulations and memory flinging because denial is such a horrible thing. valid reason? does there need to be? is an explanation owed? can a simple no to dating just be accepted? was the entire friendship based around dating to begin with? to lure them into a trap and emotionally abuse them if they do not comply?

saying no to dating someone you've known for a long long time doesn't mean you are invalidating their feelings - it just means you don't say YES for the wrong reasons, it means you DON'T SAY YES WHEN YOU REALLY MEAN NO. who knows maybe one is afraid to say no.

the entire IF U DONT DATE ME I WONT BE UR FRIEND ANYMORE situation occurs.

news flash - they weren't your friend to begin with if it comes to that.

just. just. for the pursuer not accepting the answer;

shut the fuck up and respect the answer and respect the choice given - why try to convince a good friend to date you when they do not want to? why is it so hard to take no for an answer? the fact one has to resort to bringing up the past and trying to make a 'perfect connection' with the whole we like the same things, do the same things, etc etc - still that does not make great dating relationship material.

YOU REALIZE THAT YOU CAN BE BEST BEST BEST FRIENDS AND NOT HAVE A SINGLE ROMANTIC FEELING FOR THEM RIGHT? long long time friends do not automatically make great dating relationship material.

respect choices - you do not make the choice for them - you don't convince yourself (before or after) that they will agree no matter what.

respect is given when it is *EARNED*

figure that out.

My penis is magical.

In most online games I have to throw a tantrum that I have a magical penis because I am sick and tired of some females and males trying to constantly get in my pants, bomb my chatbox and inbox with their fucking desires, desperation for a BF/GF or sex cyber-wanting bullshit.

They don't care if I'm male or female. WTF.

Dude, it is a game not a fucking dating service. FUCK'S SAKE!

I go on such insane blocking rampages. I don't even waste time now, it is instant blocking once my choices are not respected. No second chances, no joking.

I find it so hard to make any friends in these areas because the majority are turning into fucking perverts. In a horrifying way, they get all upset that you do not comply and they get weirded out that you don't fall for their advances.

I've learned that the penis has no power anymore, I CAN'T FIGHT THEM OFF WITH THE PENIS.

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there is absolutely no respect anymore, they're under the impression that just because the environment isn't REAL, that they can do whatever the fuck they want.

Robert Tew

Ask yourself often: How much power am I giving to others to have over me?

Not interested means not interested.

No does not mean CONVINCE ME.

You are not entitled to sex.

YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO A RELATIONSHIP.

JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS NICE TO YOU IT DOESN'T MAKE IT AN INVITATION FOR A RELATIONSHIP OR TO HAVE SEX.

WHEN SOMEONE SAYS NO, YOU RESPECT THE NO, YOU DO NOT TRY TO CONVINCE THEM, YOU DON'T GUILT TRIP THEM, YOU DO NOT BULLY THEM.

NO. IS NO.

YOU RESPECT THEIR CHOICE.

DON'T BE A PIECE OF SHIT.

So women are nothing but breeding machines?

Is that all women are for? A woman's only reason to be treated fairly,kindly, and with respect is just because she can have babies?

No, right?

Then why bring ONLY THAT up when trying to find a reason so that women are not abused/mistreated/being told they are worthless in religion/cultures.

Is that all a woman is? carry a baby around for nine months? No.

stop using that to 'wake up' the shitty-male-driven-human rights-violating scumbags.

A woman is NOT just a baby carrying creature, she has a personality of her own, a mind of her own, other traits,wisdom, and abilities.

So what else does a woman do besides getting pregnant? Huh?

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I swear, every time I see some gender segregation thing, the female getting the shit-end of everything, someone trying to defend her rights will say WITHOUT HER YOU GET NO SONS, BLAH BLAHBLAH.YOU ARE ONLY POINTING OUT WHAT THE ASSHOLES USE THE WOMAN FOR. WTF.

stop. that. seriously.

It is not like she gets pregnant by herself. Sometimes a woman is forced to get pregnant. She is brainwashed into thinking that THAT IS ALL SHE IS IN EXISTENCE FOR, TO PLEASE her oppressor and in turn teach her children the same cycle of disgust.

don't defend her rights to exist JUST BECAUSE she 'brings life'  it isn't a valid reason. women have had their entire natural design used against them this way. women are much more than just breeding machines.

these types of people that believe women are the shit-ends, do not care... they don't care about their mothers, sisters, aunts, daughters, wives, nieces.

so telling them that they wouldn't exist without a woman bringing them into the world, is moot, it is really moot.( AGAIN) It is not as if a woman gets pregnant by herself.

Again... all that credit goes to males.

The Dalai Lama’s 18 Rules For Living

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three Rs:        1. Respect for self        2. Respect for others        3. Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 7. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before. 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.