Getting to be the older relative that says "they should only hug me if they want to" rules actually
#dont get ne wrong if they want a hug ill do it#but at this point neither of us wants this and i dont care about making the parents happy#we will make smalltalk about animals and art#and then stop existing in each other's minds until next time#edit: my youngest relative rn is also almost taller than me and the feel there is no good