anenlighteningellipsis reblogged
i read the sentence “abusers groom their character witnesses as carefully as they groom their victims” (in a comment thread in response to a “but i know [the accused] and hes such a nice man!!”) and it’s blowing my mind a weird amount even though i guess i already knew that
It’s true and everyone should say it.
Yeah, that’s literally how you get secondary gaslighting.