anenlighteningellipsis reblogged
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how do you accept the fact that you’ll never receive an apology from someone who badly hurt you, especially when you feel like you need that apology in order to gain closure and move on with your life? how do you give yourself that closure?
#expunge them from your life entirely#or if that isn't an option#if they must be a part of your life and they won't even acknowledge your pain#if they feel no remorse#resign yourself to the reality that your feelings are not important to this person#distance yourself emotionally#the best way to neutralise your feelings about anything#is to dissect and analyse it to better understand it#understanding and objectivity are key#rationalise research diagnose#look at them through a microscope#and keep that reality close to your chest#never forget#never allow them access to you again#while accepting that their behaviour#towards you is not necessarily personal#but a projection of their own reality from within their own microcosm#anyway that's all i can say.....#:(((#<333#closure#***