non fat people will take a post about fatphobia and view it as a personal attack or find an excuse to shift the focus on themselves instead
"i got told to eat a burger!!" "skinny people have body dysmorphia too" "i got called a skeleton"
i got told to killmyself for wearing a bathing suit, to cutdeep for standing up for someone being bullied for being fat, and very often i am being told to starve myself simply for existing as a fat person.
not uncommon experiences either, quite often for me actually! and im not even considered to be that big compared to other fat people.
fatphobia kills, through either fatphobia in medical spaces leading to medical neglect, to starving to death from an encouraged eating disorder, to committingsuicide over taught self hatred and shame, to being fatally attacked in a hate crime.
i'd never diminish someone else's eating disorder or bullying history, but if the topic is fatphobia and fatness and you aren't personally affected by fatphobia... it's not about you. move on, make your own space!