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so, i’m rebecca (or just becca, whatever works) | bi | taurus | big fan of cats and art idk i’m not very interesting | BLACK LIVES MATTER!
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commodorecliche

“bi culture is remembering you’re unfortunately attracted to boys” - no it’s not. literally fuck off. 

you do not speak for all bisexuals. you likely don’t speak for most bisexuals. stopping shitting on boys for doing nothing more than existing. 

i want any and all boys to know that you are great, and you do not deserve this constant bs. you are not horrible just because you are a boy. and i am so sorry that this sentiment seems to be so grossly pervasive on tumblr and twitter. 

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seniors who date freshmen are fucking disgusting. 17 year olds shouldn’t be attracted to people who just turned 14. why tf do people need this explained to them? why would someone who’s going to be a adult in a few months want to date someone who just got out of middle school if they don’t just want a power dynamic to exploit? you will never be on equal footing with your partner if you’re about to graduate and they just started high school. date someone your own fucking age.

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you don’t have to be the classic “gay person who doesn’t wanna date bisexuals because they think they’re cheaters” to be biphobic as an lgbt person. policing what slurs we can reclaim, erasing bi figures from history to make them seem monosexual, shaming them for preferring a certain gender, saying they’re not actually bisexual because of the ratio of their attraction, or trying to invalidate our experiences by saying we have it better than another group is all biphobia and bi erasure. please be mindful of the ways you think and talk about us.

#lgbt#lgbtq#bisexaul#bi pride#gay#lgbtqia#queer#queer discourse
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today’s reminder is that even though straight and aro aces are so valid and welcome in the lgbt community, you do not get to use the f slur unless you are romantically attracted to the same sex! not everyone who’s lgbt gets to use it, straight trans people or questioning people shouldn’t use it either, so please be vigilant with the language you use.

#ace#asexual#asexuel#lgbt#lgbtq#queer
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mlm romance is just as valid and beautiful as wlw romance and commenting shit like “get well soon ❤️” or “my condolences” under pics of mlm couples is still borderline homophobic even if making fun of men is kind of a trend now.

#mlm#lgtbq community#lgbtq#gay#queer#queer discourse
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intersectionalpositivity

Inclusive positivity blog train! Reblog if you’re an LGBTQIA+ positivity blog (including ones with specific focuses like sapphic blogs or trans blogs!) and are safe for:

  • trans people (including gnc trans people & nonbinary folks! tru/med dni)
  • ace/aro people
  • mspec (bi/pan/ply, etc) people
  • intersex people (those that wish to be included)
  • queer people
  • disabled & neurodivergent LGBTQ+ people
  • LGBTQ+ people of color
  • LGBTQ+ people of religious minority (muslim people, jewish people, etc)
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survivingasexuality

Hey, my lovely aspecs. It’s been a while, but I just want to pop in and say a thing. 

I’d like you to do something for me. Practice saying these sentences.

“The validity of my identity is not up for debate.” “My place in the LGBT/Queer community is not up for debate.” “My personal experiences are not up for debate.” These three sentences are all you need to respond to aphobes. Remember that they are a loud minority. Remember that LGBTQIA+ organizations already accept you. Remember that a majority of LGBTQIA+ people don’t partake in “ace discourse” because there is nothing to argue. 

“The validity of my identity is not up for debate.” “My place in the LGBT/Queer community is not up for debate.” “My personal experiences are not up for debate.”

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i post a lot of content about ace issues, so i thought i’d share sara sunflower’s video since it’s very informative and i think you guys would like it! i find that a lot of it is based on actual studies and research, rather than just opinion, which is really helpful since a lot of the discourse around this topic is mostly people’s opinions. anyway, enjoy? hopefully you can learn a thing or two from it?

#Youtube#ace#ace exclusion#ace pride#asexuality#asexual#lgbtqa#lgbtq#lgbt#queer
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i love when i work hard to educate myself on the issues i post about and use multiple years of personal experience to back up what i say and then someone just comments “asexuals aren’t lgbt” like their one comment is gonna change my mind??? come back when you have like, evidence, or anything else to back up what you say?

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watchingyouwatchingmewatchingyou

Being asexual is lonely af y'all. There is no representation and it seems like no one talks about being asexual because you either get dismissed or people just don't know what it is :(

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before you dismiss aphobia, maybe consider that:

  • most of us have grown up in a heteronormative education system that has told us that not feeling sexual attraction is abnormal, or even a straight up mental illness (just to be clear, it is not). even the most progressive curriculums won’t include us, and that makes it harder for us to discover and accept our acespec identities.
  • we have the second highest rate of sexual assault compared to the other members of the lgbt community.
  • some countries won’t recognize marriages as legitimate until you consummate them, and in many others, including the us, refusal to have sex is a valid reason to get a marriage annulled, so imagine being an ace who doesn’t have sex.
  • studies show that landlords are just as likely to kick out ace tenants as they are gay ones. now, obviously it’s easier to just not be out to your landlord if you’re ace, but no one should have to be closeted so they don’t lose their home.
  • aces who grow up in religious environments aren’t accepted by their churches most of the time. even if it seems like religious communities prefer chastity, they want you to have sex eventually, and since asexual people don’t tend to do that, they’re outcasted for their sexuality.
  • the russian government classified asexuality as a mental illness, so now russian asexuals aren’t able to get drivers licenses which i know is oddly specific but it’s also fucking insane and such blatant aphobia that i had to share it
  • we aren’t ever included in media. ever. we get no representation. actually, i’ll bet that out of all the lgbtq identities, we get the least amount of recognition. seriously, think about it, because i can’t name a single asexual character except for todd chavez from bojack horseman and the one episode of house where he “cured” an ace couple. like c’mon, that’s ridiculous.
  • many ace people can tell you stories of doctors trying to “cure” them of their asexuality by trying to convince them of sexual assaults that never happened, telling aces with chronic pain that that’s the reason why they’re ace, or giving them hormones that they don’t need. there’s so much bias against us in the medical field and we shouldn’t have to waste our time, or money anymore.
  • the lack of representation doesn’t help, because there’s so many misconceptions about asexuality, and almost all of them hurt us. no one understands us, and tbh i’m sick of being called a plant, or emotionless, or incapable of love.
  • half of the lgbtq community fucking hates us. there’s so much unnecessary vitriol towards us that i honestly don’t like telling other queer people that i’m asexual because then we need to talk about discourse for two hours and i get talked over. even if you don’t think we’re lgbt (you would be wrong though), you don’t need to hate us or make fun of us. there’s no reason for us to be your laughing stock.
  • when we do speak up about what we experience, we either get a “who cares” or confused aphobia from straight people, or just a “aces aren’t lgbt lol” from other lgbtq people who don’t care, and don’t want to listen to us.
  • allo people want to speak on acespec identities and issues when they don’t understand them at all, haven’t consulted with any of us, haven’t done research, and don’t bother to listen to us when we explain them. the best part is that most of the time, their voices drown out ours when these issues come up. wonderful. when people want to talk about trans issues for example, normally they educate themselves first and talk to actual trans people first (this is definitely not everyone though), but we don’t get the same respect.

and that’s a small sample of half of what we go through. even if you don’t think we’re lgbt or whatever (i’m prepared for the enevitable argument over this that will break out in the comments of the post), respect us, listen to us, don’t talk over us, and educate yourself! i’m sick of all the arguments and hate and misunderstanding. we already have so much stacked up against us, so at least give us your respect.

#aspec positivity#ace exclusion#asexuality#asexual#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqa#queer#ace pride#gay
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might fuck around and change my blog name today, who knows?

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coolestfinch

i am once again begging y’all to stop saying that lesbians are more privileged than the other lgbt sexualities. we are LITERALLY the smallest sexual minority group in the community. not to mention,

- our flag is never respected or used, and people will come up with any excuse to disrespect it and it’s creator

- our terms and labels are co-opted by people who aren’t lesbians and when we ask them to stop we are labeled as bigots

- our sexuality is fetishized and misrepresented in media only to pander to cishet men and about 80% of the representation we get is only cis white feminine women

- don’t even get me started on the way y’all treat lesbians of color, trans lesbians, non binary lesbians, and butch&femme lesbians

if you aren’t a lesbian, you need to be fucking speaking up about lesbophobia. people don’t listen to us. the amount of times i’ve seen a bi woman speak out against lesbophobia and a lesbian be called biphobic for saying the same thing is .. astounding. if you think that lesbians have some kind of “monosexual privilege” or have it BETTER due to how hyper sexualized we are, you’re a lesbophobe. pure and simple.

[terfs, radfems, truscum, and transmeds don’t touch this post.]

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