Find a workout routine that you love, foods that give you energy, a skin care routine that makes you feel beautiful, books that uplift your spirit, a hobby that allows you to have fun, a morning routine that feels like love. Taking care of ourselves is a luxurious feeling.
The only external difference between a mortifying social blunder and an extremely weird flex is the confidence in which you execute it. Whether they think you are just awkward and clumsy or unhesitantingly bat shit insane is up to you.
ayeee any of you besties live around Cleveland
Rebecca Ross, Divine Rivals
“The daily routine of most adults is so heavy and artificial that we are closed off to much of the world. We have to do this in order to get our work done. I think one purpose of art is to get us out of those routines. When we hear music or poetry or stories, the world opens up again. We’re drawn in — or out — and the windows of our perception are cleansed, as William Blake said. The same thing can happen when we’re around young children or adults who have unlearned those habits of shutting the world out.”
— Ursula K. Le Guin
The beautiful thing as you get older is that you realize so many “rules” are made up and you can just do whatever. Posters can go anywhere in the house not just my room. I can sit down while cooking a meal or taking a shower. I can make the same thing for breakfast lunch dinner for a week straight. I can roam around the house shirtless. I can wear a dress with jeans. The world is my oyster key word my and I can live as I please embracing little things such as this
you just can't mysteriously disappear for a significant length of time only to eventually turn up years later staggering down a highway covered in blood and dirt and muttering to yourself incoherently without ever actually explaining what happened to you during that time you went missing anymore
I’m sorry the people around you think you’re weak for crying. Bodies are designed to release stress through tears. The fact that so many were taught to suppress their body’s functioning isn’t on you.
Be brave.
Rebel.
Cry.
five recipes for an exciting life (in my opinion)
- spending enough time creating things with your hands (baking, drawing, scrapbooking, doodling, crocheting, journaling and so on)
- keeping track of things like pretty skies, milestones, happy memories, appointments you're looking forward to
- listening to music that genuinely makes you feel happy and energetic
- making a habit of reaching out to people in a way that's comfortable to you (i send my dad songs he might like, my friend sends me monthly life updates)
- being kind to all your five senses → like investing in a scented candle or essential oil dispenser or body mist, having a soft blanket or socks (or a soft animal to pet), listening to birdsong or the rain, looking at the sky more often, and having your favorite foods enough times
LEVERAGE: REDEMPTION (2021-)
Hanif Abdurraqib, They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us
Miller's Girl (2024)
There is wisdom in the woods. There are blessings in the brooks. 💚🍃