bruh i’m not talking to my mom about gender any more. the information simply doesn’t go into her head. no matter how clearly i say it, “call me x and you can expect y” leaves absolutely no impact vs. she has seamlessly shifted name and pronouns for an asshole from my hometown who i last hung out with regularly almost a decade ago. like i’m sorry that i don’t have everything figured out and it’s confusing but can my mother say my name one time