Confession: I once told my sister I think girls can be so beautiful, and she asked me if I was bi and said if i was, she would feel uncomfortable around me and wouldn't want to change in front of me, go to the bathroom, etc. We're rlly close and I am still hurt over it because we're family... like why would you think i would sexualize you... Now i'm super careful just in case but i hate it b/c I used to be so carefree close w/ her. I haven't even admitted to being bi and i feel like a predator
I’m going to be really blunt with you. You’re sister is in the wrong. Her views on sexuality are wrong. It’s like every straight man who’s like, “I have nothing against gay men as long as they don’t flirt with me.” Just because you have an attraction to the same sex does not fucking mean a person finds every single person of that gender attractive. And especially not family. She should be the one feeling ashamed, not you.
I’m so sorry that she has done this to you. You are in no way a predator. You’re just you and nothing is wrong with you. It’s okay to be bi, and this is coming from someone else who identifies as bi too. It’s okay.