here is the thing
the season scene with the bikes where mike and el talk is the DIRECT INVERSE of the season four fight scene.
“i understand” vs “what do i not understand?”
the deliberate use of mouthbreathers
them being on the same level vs different levels (physically)
PLATONIC FRIENDS VS ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED
the show wants you to notice a difference
spending that much time together just kissing is unnatural, just like hopper says it is. but it’s all either of them know to do! because mike has no desire to be in this relationship, and has no clue how to act so he gets all his pointers from the people around him but still misconstrues it and they both end up miserable. el just got out of the lab and doesn’t even know what it means to like someone and she is already in a relationship
it’s just not healthy. that’s the facts, i fear.