Okay so I’m pretty sure that I’m aro ace but my problem is that everyone says I’m too young to know . . . I’m 13. The thing is, I don’t ever WANT to experience attraction. Is there any way to know? I only have one friend supportive of my coming out, everyone else said I would change my mind.
Honey I was 12 when I figured out I was ace, and that's held on strong all the way into my adulthood. I absolutely think that right now is the time you'll start to notice these things because your peers are growing into their sexualities and it sounds like you are... not. I'm honestly impressed that you noticed this early! Figuring out that something isn't there is much harder than figuring out what is! *squints side eyed at my romantic attraction* Unfortunately, at this age people seem to really like pretending they know better than you so they don't have to listen to what you have to say. That's tough. That's life. There are two things I did to get through it: 1. Find people who are supportive and who do understand and turn to them when things get rough. 2. Remember that even if you do change your mind, that's okay, and it doesn't make them "right" it just makes them obnoxious.
You know yourself best. You know what is right for you best. If you think you're aro ace, then you are, and the people in your life should be supportive of that.