It is upsetting to see negative comments surrounding the death of Jason David Frank. Comments like “he’s selfish to leave behind his kids”, “he’s not strong enough like we think he is”, “I divorce my wife too but I didn’t kill myself” and so on. If you do not have anything nice to say, keep it to yourself.
Who are we to judge when we don’t even know what he feels and experiences in life which accumulated and finally pushed him off the edge. There is no brick for brick comparison, no two experiences are the same, similar yes, but never the same. There are many factors that are different.
This is why people commit suicide. They’re afraid of seeking help for fear of being judged and criticised. Is it so hard for us to be kind to one another instead of being angry and salty expecting others to “get over it”. If we could do it, so can they right? Wrong. Different people have different limit.
What is trifle to you is critical to others, and so on. Life hardships are supposed to make us more empathic and kinder, not the opposite. That’s what differentiate a hero and a villain. A hero helps others so they will not feel what they felt. A villain destroys others so they will feel what they felt.
Belittling other life sufferings and hardships, thinking that yours is far worse is already selfish. Not everything is about you. Not everyone going through the same as you. We all walk different paths in life with different people with different personalities and mentalities in our lives that shapes our life journey.
Mental health is real. Depression is having suicidal thoughts in your darkest hour when you feel like there’s nowhere to run, you feel alone in the world despite being surrounded by many people, you look happy and appear funny on the outside when you’re actually crying and broken in the inside.
He seems to be loving and enjoying spending his time entertaining his fans. Maybe that is the only thing that make him feel really happy and alive. Seeing the grateful fans appreciating his efforts in being an impactful actor and thanking him for making their childhood a memorable one, supporting him.
Kindness starts with you. Be nice. Be helpful. Stop judging. Stop hating. It doesn’t cost you a thing. In fact, it will make you feel better. That’s what Jason David Frank’s character of Tommy Oliver in Power Rangers stood for. A character that inspires many across the world to be better.