Meneertje Pijlebol

Y'all wanna see my struggle trying to figure out whether or not we were gonna get el gee bee tee bridgertons this season?

I'm starting to figure out that i'm probably genderqueer, but i have no idea how to actually label my identity. Genderfluid comes closest but even then there's a part of me that feels like i'm not allowed to claim that identity. Then again, i felt that way about the bisexual label for a long time too and came to accept that. I also feel like my sexuality and gender are in tandem. Like one can't exist without the other being there. Idk there's something abt the multisexual experience that's leading me to explore this.

The thing is though, i'll probably only ever be genderqueer online. I just do not have irl friends or family that understand the complexities of gender besides the biological. I am comfortable enough with my biological gender being my "main" gender. I am comfortable being referred to as a woman (i will also still refer to myself as a woman) and i do still very much identify with womanhood. But online, feel free to refer to me as anything.

I changed my pronouns in my bio, but really any pronouns will go. I'm experimenting currently with the he/him pronouns bc this is the first time i'll be using them. This is all so exciting and terrifying at the same time.

Y'know the whole Kit Connor thing hits me even harder bc being bi myself, and having been Kit's age not too long ago. I know what it's like to not feel ready to share yourself with the world. 18 is so young.

It sucks to see someone who's a part of my community be forced to out himself like that. It sucks that he felt like he owed people an explanation after being spotted with Maia, when he absolutely didn't. He had already said he wasn't big on labels, but that he felt comfortable in his sexuality. And here he is, telling the world he's bi when he wasn't ready, all because people who claim to be fans of the show can't accept that queer actors don't NEED to out themselves as queer to portray a queer character.

@ the world, but especially @ fellow queers who aren't bi or under the bi umbrella: stop asking us bisexuals to prove ourselves. Our identities are valid, with or without the bi label stuck on it. We are allowed to exist as our most authentic selves.

What a great day to remind everyone that Korra and Asami are both bisexual icons and there’s nothing anyone can do to change that 👏🏼